As a retired educator for over 25 years, I know the first few weeks of school can be exciting, scary, and busy for parents and children.
Getting children ready for school and building relationships with teachers and administration are important aspects of a successful educational experience. Here are some strategies for parents to consider:
Preparing Children for School
- Establish a Routine:
- Create a consistent daily schedule that includes time for waking up, meals, study, play, and bedtime. A routine helps children understand expectations and reduces anxiety about the school day.
- Organize School Supplies:
- Ensure that your child has all necessary school supplies and materials. Involve them in the process of selecting and organizing their supplies to create a sense of ownership. Make sure they stay organized at school as well to make them successful learners.
- Promote Good Sleep Habits:
- Set a regular bedtime and ensure your child gets adequate sleep. Good rest is crucial for focus and learning. I highly suggest turning off computers 2.5 hours before bedtime for children. Spend quality family time together.
- Foster Independence:
- Encourage your child to take responsibility for schoolwork and personal items. Have them practice skills like packing their own backpacks and managing their time.
- Encourage a Positive Attitude:
- Talk positively about school and the experiences they will have. Address any fears or anxieties they might have with reassurance and support. Make sure to check in each day to get feedback and learn if your child is comfortable and making friends. Teach your child it is important to be honest and share if they have concerns at school with their teachers.
- Establish Open Communication:
- Regularly check in with your child about their school day, listen to their concerns, and offer support as needed. Ask about their teachers and let them show you their assignments.
Developing Relationships with Teachers and Administration
- Attend School Events:
- Participate in parent-teacher meetings, school open houses, and other events. This shows your involvement and allows you to meet teachers and administrators. If you have time, spend time at school with your child and have lunch with them. Younger children love this.
- Communicate Regularly:
- Establish open lines of communication with your child’s teachers. Use emails, phone calls, or school apps to stay informed about your child’s progress and any concerns.
- Be Supportive and Collaborative:
- Work with teachers to address any issues or challenges your child might be facing. Be open to feedback and show you’re committed to supporting your child’s education. Teachers care about their student’s success.
- Show Appreciation:
- Express gratitude for the efforts of teachers and school staff. A simple thank-you note or acknowledgment of their hard work can go a long way.
- Stay Informed:
- Read school newsletters, check online portals, and stay updated with school policies and events. Being informed helps you engage more effectively with school personnel.
- Be Respectful and Professional:
- Approach interactions with teachers and administrators respectfully. Constructive, professional communication fosters a positive relationship.
Building a solid partnership with your child’s school can create a supportive environment that benefits their overall educational experience. I hope your child has a fun and successful school year.
